Summary of the 4 mostprevalent themes
| Theme | Supporting quotation |
|---|---|
| 1. The sheer volume of etiquette rules overwhelms outsiders | “Holy cow! I thought there was going to be a list of 8 of them… There's like 40!” – dibujaleojos |
| 2. Regional differences within Japan (Osaka vs. Kyoto) | “I remember being blown away when I was in a Kyoto Familymart after a few months of living in Osaka after they handed me my fried chicken very delicately with both hands like it was a business card!” – cmcaleer |
| 3. Formal etiquette often feels irrelevant in everyday life | “We have a lot of dining etiquette too if you look into it. But it’s mostly forgotten and irrelevant high‑class behavior.” – wahnfrieden |
| 4. Much etiquette is historically inherited and not universally observed | “A lot of culture was lost in the Cultural Revolution.” – kleton |