The Hacker News discussion revolves around three central, intertwined themes concerning the philosophy of persistence in uncertain outcomes:
1. The Utility and Ethics of the "One Success" Strategy
A significant portion of the discussion centers on the maxim "all it takes is for one to work out," debating whether this approach (often seen in pursuits like applications or job hunting) is a necessary survival strategy or an antisocial waste of effort.
- Support for the Strategy (As a necessary approach): Some users argue that in scenarios resembling power-law distributions, persistence despite repeated failure is crucial. One user noted, "Each 'no' is a signal that you're still trying which puts you above many people whose ego can't handle hearing that word so they settle and turn to bitterness" ("energy123").
- Critique of the Strategy (As antisocial "hustling"): Critics view this approach as inherently selfish, burning communal resources (like the time of admissions officers) for individual gain. One user condemned this: "Applying in the hope they mess up and admit you when they're really better off rejecting you is so antisocial" ("programjames").
2. The Role of Luck, Privilege, and Safety Nets
The debate frequently pivoted to whether success is truly attributable to individual effort ("grit") or heavily dependent on pre-existing advantages that allow for repeated attempts.
- Emphasis on Safety Nets: Several participants emphasized that the ability to try multiple times is contingent on having resources to absorb failure. One observed that success correlates strongly with resources: "The biggest factor in success is the number of chances you get to fail and try again, not necessarily how inherently good you are" ("jmward01").
- Challenge to Meritocracy Myths: Critics argued that the focus on "grit" ignores structural advantages, particularly the wealth of famous founders. One user summarized this skepticism: "98% of what you have was given.... I do agree, however, that a lot of people don't even bother to put in the remaining 2%" ("moralestapia").
3. Distinguishing "Games" with Fixed vs. Variable Odds
Users attempted to clarify whether applying the principles of probability (like the gambler's fallacy) is appropriate for life challenges, contrasting real-world iteration with pure chance.
- Life Iterations Offer Learning: Unlike pure gambling, real-life attempts—like job interviews—offer feedback that improves future outcomes. One user asked, "In gambling your odds are fixed, but in real life, wouldn't you get better at solving problems with each iteration?" ("ashu1461").
- Motivational Non-Sense: Some cautioned against blanket strategic advice, suggesting it can obscure necessary strategic changes. A decisive stance was taken that motivation alone can mislead: "These statements to me seem like motivational non-sense which misrepresent how real world works or what the patterns really are like" ("mewpmewp2").