1. Author Exploits Kindness Without Reciprocating
Many criticize Kevin Kelly as entitled, a "begpacker," or grifter taking from poorer people without giving back.
"gostsamo: 'The sense of entitlement in this guy and the way he proudly explains how he is using people is just awful.'"
"throw4432w56: 'He sounds like a βbegpacker.β ... Taking from those less fortunate is horrible.'"
"gcanyon: 'he is essentially a traveling con man, moving from mark to mark.'"
2. Celebrates Human Goodness and Openness
Supporters praise the essay's optimism about strangers' kindness and "pronoia" mindset.
"runamuck: '99.9% of the people I meet want to be kind and help. You just need to "tune into that frequency."'"
"willparks: 'the message is about the general goodness of humanity ... people are actually fundamentally good and helpful.'"
"JimmyBuckets: 'How wonderful then that it is so ubiquitous.'"
3. Safety Risks for Vulnerable Travelers
Concerns focus on dangers like assault, especially for women, POC, or solo travelers.
"esafak: 'there are a lot of people -- usually women -- who travel the world to prove the goodness of humanity and get killed by some rando.'"
"dheera: 's/killed/harassed/ and the numbers are pretty damn high.'"
"throw4432w56: 'As a person of color, I can tell you that my everyday life experiences are gonna be vastly different.'"
4. Reciprocity vs. Unconditional Grace
Debate on whether kindness requires exchange or is pure gift; some see transactional faking.
"loire280: 'this kindness is a form of grace, given freely without expectation of reciprocation.'"
"dheera: 'if you don't need help you shouldn't be asking for it from strangers.'"
"85392_school: 'the person being aided can reciprocate with degrees of humility, dependency, gratitude ... which ... was genuinely valuable.'"